Life as an aunty

What is the next best thing to being a parent.. being an aunty!! And I’m sure this goes for being an uncle too.. but I’m not an uncle.

Before I became a mom, I became an aunty.. and before I was a biological aunty.. I was aunty to a few friend’s kids.

Now my brothers 2 girls, and my sister-in-laws (husbands sister) 2 girls are clearly at the top of my list for who has aunties heart. Those girls, I would move mountains for them! Followed extremely closely behind are my best friend’s 2 boys. And then we have one of my husbands best friends baby girl, who this one holds a special place in my heart as I was there as she entered this world. So yes for those who call me aunty I would do anything for.

Some boy or girl broke your heart.. don’t worry aunty will deal with them. Oh getting married.. I got you boo, what do you need me to do?! Secret from your parents.. don’t worry my lips are sealed!

Let’s start with the oldest.. now just because she is the oldest, doesn't mean she was the first one to make me an aunty. However being able to watch this young lady grow into the amazing young woman she is becoming has truly been an honour. She has always been there for us when it comes to our daughter, whether it be babysitting, coming to watch her dance, or even having her part of their wedding day. She also clearly loves me because she asked aunty to be part of that day too! Her kind heart, and gentle soul makes her one of the most wonderful women I know, and to be called her aunty fills my heart with joy. All the qualities that she has is what makes her amazing, and seeing her kind heart full of compassion is what is making her grow into one outstanding nurse.

Stunning on her graduation day

Watching my second oldest niece grow up has been a truly enriching experience, as she embodies a big heart filled with love for her family and friends. Her kindness and compassion shine through in everything she does, whether it's lending a helping hand to a friend in need or showering her family with affection. Each milestone she reaches is a reminder of her generous spirit and the joy she brings to those around her. It's been a privilege to witness her journey, as she continues to blossom into an incredible young woman who values connections and spreads warmth wherever she goes. I can't wait to see how she continues to build the life she has for her and her boyfriend, and the places she will go.

Headed into the world

Now we get to the the teen. This one is the FIRST to call me aunty. She is the one who started it all.

In the heart of her vibrant world, she embodies a beautiful blend of grace and grit. In dance, she expresses herself through movement, twirling and leaping with joy. Her love for friends and family shines brightly, as she cherishes every moment spent with them, whether it's sharing laughter or supporting each other through life's ups and downs. Yet, when it comes to lacrosse, this girl transforms into a fierce competitor, ready to throw punches if it means protecting her team and securing victory. This duality of elegance and toughness makes her truly unique, capturing the essence of youth in all its complexity. She is my peanut from day one, and always will be. Oh.. too cool to give aunty a hug, great, all the better for me to come skipping down the hall yelling your name taking all the hugs possible! Want me to dance and bug you about boys.. I can do that too!!

After a great game.. yes aunty took all the sweaty hugs she could get!!

Now we move on to my ride die girl! She is the embodiment of joy and adventure, always ready to embark on any escapade with her aunty, whether its a roller coaster at Disney, or just off to the mall. With a spirit as vibrant as her dancing, she twirls through life, captivating everyone with her beautiful moves and infectious laughter. Whether it's exploring new places or trying out new experiences, she embraces every moment with enthusiasm and grace, turning even the simplest outings into unforgettable memories. Her resilience and positivity shine through, making her not just a fantastic dancer but also a true adventurer at heart. She embraces life, and aunty in all her weirdness and for this.. she is my other partner in crime (first being my daughter).

Right before we went on her first real big rollercoaster at Disney! She was a trooper with me!

Now we cant forget my boys!! I don't get to see them often, but when I do.. aunty will spoil!! The stories, the cuddles (becoming less as they are getting older!) Watching them grow into young men is what I am looking forward to. Being able to get the call "he has a girlfriend!" and then needing to head that way to meet this girl and see if their mom and I approve, those are the days I can not wait to have happen! The super hero's, the lego's, cars, and all things boys, it is just never enough. Both boys are soft spoken, kind hearted and sometimes very very shy. But aunty still has what it takes to win them over each visit.

Quick coffee date for some lemon cake-pops!

Now what is even better than being an aunty... not much except being a niece is also pretty cool! Being a niece is a special experience filled with unique connections and cherished memories. Nieces often enjoy a playful and loving relationship with their aunts, who can offer guidance, support, and a sense of adventure. This bond allows for shared secrets, fun outings, and a safe space to explore one's identity. Aunts often play a significant role in a niece's life, providing not just family ties but also friendship and mentorship, making the role of a niece truly special.

Me and my aunty

If you have that aunty.. or uncle, give them the hug, let them know you love them too. Because they really are great to have.. and they really do love you!

Until Next Time!

Kayla